Friendships - this is something we all value, and have various experiences of being and having friends,
In this podcast we discuss some keys to vibrant friendships, as well as the challenges and joys in this essential area of life. Listen for some insights and encouragement.
Proverbs 18:24 "A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend that sticks closer than a brother."
If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go with others. African proverb
"Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Do everything in love.."
1 Corinthians 16:13-14 ESV
The topic for the podcast is Friendships.
Quiet Times
- Zechariah 4:6 Not by might, not by power, but by my (God's) Spirit
- Matthew 16 Who do you say that I (Jesus) am? What do both your words and actions reveal?
- Proverbs 16:13 Valuing men who speak the truth
- Ephesians 1 Abundant blessings in Christ, Prayer to REALLY know and understand this
Friendships
Jesus had twelve close friends, while he was in his thirties.
Seven Keys for developing Vibrant Friendships (taken from Noblemen Life)
1) Ask God for friends that will stick closer than a brother
2) Proactively initiate until God gives you a good friend and a good friend group.
3) Kill the idealized friend.
4) Don't be easily offended.
5) Fight to let someone on the inside and keep them there.
6) Have friendships with substance.
7) Be a friend of sinners.
Some things discussed ...
- The importance of putting a priority on having friends of substance
- Accountability - moving forward with Christ and Biblical living
- Friendships take time. It is an investment
- Men NEED men around them
- Friendships are essential for wellness
- Friendships come and go, being fluid over time
- Friendships are best grown with intentionality and commitment
- We need to swallow our pride
- Ask friends for advice and prayers
- Be vulnerable - let people in on the inside
- Celebration with friends is a joy!
Some key passages shared:
- 1 Samuel 18:3 "he loved him as himself"
- 1 Samuel 23:6 "he encouraged him to stay strong in his faith"
- Proverbs 16:18 Pride goes before destruction
- Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 Two are better than one ... they can help each other
SUMMARY
Friends are important for men to have. They bring and afford accountability, teamwork, joy of celebrating together, relationships of substance, etc.
The purpose of our podcast is to help each other be better leaders, husbands and fathers for God's glory. Our discussions are based on elements from the Men's Ministry at Hillcrest Christian Reformed Church in Hudsonville, MI. For more information about us, check our website and hillcrestcrc.org.